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Hand-outs

Hand-out 1: gebaseerd op o.a. Sbarra, D.A., Bourassa, K.J., & Manvelian, A. (2019). Marital separation and divorce: Correlates and consequences. In B. H. Fiese, M. Celano, K. Deater-Deckard, E. N. Jouriles, & M. A. Whisman (Eds), APA handbook of contemporary family psychology: Foundations, methods, and contemporary issues across the lifespan (pp. 687-705). American Psychological Association.

Hand-out 3 en 16: gebaseerd op:

• Humiston, T., & Hughes Lansing, A. (2021). Stress: Historical approaches to allostasis. In H. Hazlett-Stevens (Ed.), Biopsychosocial factors of stress, and mindfulness for stress reduction. (pp. 3-16). Springer Nature Switzerland AG.

• Niermann, H. C. M., Figner, B., & Roelofs, K. (2017). Individual differences in defensive stress-responses: The potential relevance for psychopathology. Current Opinion in Behavioral Sciences, 14, 94-101.

Hand-out 4: gebaseerd op:

• Dijkstra, P. (2023). Sociale psychologie. Boom.

• Mackay, M., Wood, J., & Brantley, J. (2008). Omgaan met overweldigende emoties. Hogreve Uitgevers Bv.

Hand-out 6: gebaseerd op:

• Dijkstra, P. & Tamminga, A. (2020). IBCT relatietherapie. Boom.

• Papernow, P.L. (2016). Soft/hard/soft communication. In: G.R. Weeks, S.T. Fife & Peterson, C.M.(Eds.), Techniques for the couple therapist (pp. 69-72). Routledge.

Hand-out 10: gebaseerd op:

• Jansen, G., & Batink, T. (2017). Time to ACT. Thema.

• Matheus Rahal, G., & Caserta Gon, M. C. (2020). A systematic review of values interventions in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. International Journal of Psychology & Psychological Therapy, 20(3), 355–372.

Hand-out 11: ontleend aan Jansen, G., & Batink, T. (2017). Time to ACT. Thema.

Hand-out 12: gebaseerd op: Mackay, M., Wood, J., & Brantley, J. (2008). Omgaan met overweldigende emoties. Hogreve Uitgevers Bv.

Hand-out 13: gebaseerd op: Leahy, R., Tirch, D., & Napolitano, L. (2012). Emotieregulatie. Hogreve Uitgevers Bv.

Hand-out 14: gebaseerd op o.a.:

• Dijkstra, P. & Tamminga, A. (2020). IBCT relatietherapie. Boom.

• Ahsan, S., & Hanif, R. (2020). The role of communication patterns in enhancing the quality of marriage. In A. Kamal, S. Masood, R. Hanif, H. Jami, & A. Zubair (Eds.), Psychosocial explorations of gender in society. (pp. 58–73). Cambridge Scholars Publishing.

Hand-out 15: gebaseerd op:

• Dijkstra, P. (2023). Sociale psychologie. Boom.

• Leary, T. (1996). “Interpersonal Theory and the Interpersonal Circumplex: Timothy Leary’s legacy”: Comment. Journal of Personality Assessment, 66, 301–307

Hand-out 17. Gebaseerd op: Siegel D. (2015). The developing mind (second edition). Guilford.

Hand-out 18: gebaseerd op o.a. Mackay, M., Wood, J., & Brantley, J. (2008). Omgaan met overweldigende emoties. Hogreve Uitgevers Bv.

Hand-out 20: gebaseerd op Worthington, E. L., Jennings, D. J., & Diblasio, F. A. (2010). Interventions to promote forgiveness in couple and family context: Conceptualization, review, and analysis. Journal of Psychology and Theology, 38, 231-245.

Hand-out 21 gebaseerd op Mackay, M., & Wood, J.C. (2019). Dialectical behavior therapy skills workbook: practical DBT exercises for learning mindfulness, interpersonal effectiveness, emotion regulation, and distress tolerance. New Harbinger Publications.

Hand-out 27: Eisenhower matrix, uitleg over time management tool, template - Toolshero

Hand-out 24: gebaseerd op o.a.:

• Dijkstra, P. (2021). Op dezelfde golflengte. Anderz.

• Mackay, M., & Wood, J.C. (2019). Dialectical behavior therapy skills workbook: practical DBT exercises for learning mindfulness, interpersonal effectiveness, emotion regulation, and distress tolerance. New Harbinger Publications.

Hand-outs 22, 23, 28, 29 en 30: gebaseerd op o.a.

• Dijkstra, P. & Tamminga, A. (2020). IBCT relatietherapie. Boom.

• Dijkstra, P. (2017). Protocollaire behandeling van partners met relatieproblemen. In: G. Keijsers, A. van Minnen, M. Verbraak, K. Hoogduin, & P. Emmelkamp (red.), Protocollaire behandelingen voor volwassenen met psychische klachten (pp. 498-558). Boom.

• Schaap, C.P.D.R., Widenfelt, B.M., & Gerlsma, J. (2002). Behandelprotocol relatieproblematiek. Boom.